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“Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.” (Lk 6:36)
From what St. Luke tells us, after proclaiming the beatitudes to his disciples, Jesus made his
revolutionary call: to love every person as a brother or sister, even those considered enemies. Jesus
fully knows and explains to us that we are all brothers and sisters because we have one Father.
Continually seeking out his children, God wants to build a relationship with us. While
holding us up to our responsibilities, God’s love heals, nourishes and takes care of us. It is a
mother’s attitude, compassionate and tender.
This is the mercy of God that reaches out personally to every human being, with all their
weaknesses. In fact, God prefers those who are marginalized, excluded and rejected.
Mercy is a love that fills the heart and flows out to others, to neighbors as well as strangers,
to society around us. Since we are children of God, we can imitate his characteristics of love,
acceptance and knowing how to wait for the right time for others.
“Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.”
Unfortunately, in our personal and social lives we breathe an atmosphere of growing hostility and
competition, of mutual suspicion, categorical judgments and fear of others. Grudges accumulate and
lead to conflicts and wars.
As Christians, we can go against the mainstream by giving a clear-cut witness. We can take
the step to be free from ourselves and from external circumstances, and begin to rebuild the
weakened or broken bonds in our family, in our workplace, in the parish community or in our
political party.
If we have hurt someone, let’s have the courage to ask forgiveness and start again. It is an
act of great dignity. If someone has truly offended us, let’s try to forgive them and make room for
that person once more in our heart, so that the wound can heal.
But what is forgiveness?
Focolare founder Chiara Lubich wrote in a commentary to scripture in October 1981:
“Forgiveness is not forgetfulness … it is not weakness … it does not mean taking serious things
lightly, or considering as good what is in fact bad … it is not indifference. Forgiveness is a clearsighted
act of will, and thus a free act that welcomes the other as he or she is, despite the wrong
done to us, just as God welcomes us sinners, despite our faults.”
Forgiveness means not reacting to the injuries received with more wrongdoing, but doing
what Paul says: “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good” (see Rom 12:21). Such
openheartedness cannot be improvised. It is a daily conquest, a constant growing in our identity as
children of God. Above all, it is a gift from the Father that we can and must ask from him.
“Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.”
A young woman from the Philippines told us her story: “I was only 11 when my father was killed,
but justice was not upheld because we were poor. When I grew up, I studied law because I wanted
justice for my father’s death. But God had another plan for me. A colleague invited me to meet
people who were seriously committed to living the Gospel. I started doing the same.
“One day I asked Jesus to teach me how to live his words “Love your enemies” (cf. Mt
5:44) in a real way, because I still felt hatred within me for the men who had killed my father. The
next day, at work, I met the head of that criminal group. I greeted him with a smile and asked about
his family.
“He was astonished by this, and I was even more surprised at what I had done. The hatred
within me started breaking down and was transformed into love. However, that was only the first
step: love is creative! I thought that every member of that criminal group had to receive our
forgiveness. My brother and I visited them to re-establish a relationship and bear witness that God
loves them! One man asked our forgiveness for what he had done, as well as prayers for himself
and his family.”
Letizia Magri
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